Oh, wow. I'm Asexual and I am completely put off by the idea of doing something like that with someone, it really freaks me out. But I've always been a bit worried because I've said that I'm happy not losing my virginity but I don't want people around me to treat me like some sort of freak :/ Peer pressure is pretty bad with things like this.
This is what I find very sad and annoying, that people feel pressured into doing something they don’t want to.
Nonie, if you don’t want to lose your virginity, then don’t do it.
What matters in the end is what YOU want, and who YOU are. If you’re not comfortable with the idea of having sex, or it doesn’t appeal to you at all, then why should you do it only because some people think it’s what you’re supposed to do?
That people who judge others have made their own choices without asking for anyone else’s opinion. Did anyone ask you for your approval when they had sex for the first time? Then why should you want their approval on something so personal as deciding to not have sex at all?
Don’t let anyone make you feel bad about who you are and what you decide. Your life is yours, and whoever doesn’t like it can go fuck themselves.