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Make a success story post in MFP. Get +80 friend requests. Make a post saying I can’t accept...

Mon, 20 May 2013 20:00:45 +0200

Make a success story post in MFP.

Get +80 friend requests.

Make a post saying I can’t accept any more requests because I like to actually have friends there, not only a huge number of people for the shake of it.

Get +20 friend requests in less than 5 mins.

Okkkkkkk…. what part of “I don’t accept more FR” does people not understand? xD

arsenictoreador: mimiwao: Omfg

Mon, 20 May 2013 19:41:56 +0200

arsenictoreador:

mimiwao:

Omfg

Reblog if you have an imaginary life inside your head

Mon, 20 May 2013 19:39:06 +0200

hundred and hundreds of AUs

thousands actually

MILLIONS

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Mon, 20 May 2013 19:00:11 +0200

Since you say it's ok to ask you things I was wondering if you struggled with your weight loss. If you did, what were your harder struggles? I look up to you as my inspiration to lose weight. I would like to know your experience. Thanks. (:

Mon, 20 May 2013 18:53:48 +0200

Yes, it’s more than ok. I enjoy questions. I’m a boring person with no life lately. lol.

I did struggle. A lot. Specially at first. I used to eat very very badly. I didn’t realize it back then. I was actually surprised I was so overweight (well, obese) because in my mind my eating habits weren’t that bad. I didn’t eat *that* much. Or so I thought.

Changing my mind and opening my eyes to how awful my eating habits were was hard. I had to change those habits completely. From eating all the crap I wanted whenever I wanted to eating only at pre-set times (that helps me to not overeat or snack in between) and only eating good stuff like veggies and grilled stuff. I *hated* veggies. So the change of eating only things I liked, to eating mostly things I disliked was very hard for me. Funnily enough I hate a lot of fast food and *adore* veggies. On nom nom.

Working out was a struggle too. The most active thing I did on daily basis was going from my bed to the living room. Easing myself into exercising on daily basis was so so hard. I have *never* really been an active person. I tended to fail my PE classes in high school. I felt like giving up too many times to count. I did give up a couple of times (not for longer than a week tho. I always regretted it and went back to work out).

I think those were my biggest struggles.

I did notice the changes rather quickly so that kept me encouraged. I knew that my very hard work was paying off, so I learned to love clean eating and working out. Now I adore learning veggie-based recipes and working out is one of the best moments of my day. :)

<3 I hope you reach this point soon too. It’s awesome when you go from struggling to looking forward it.

-redux: My constant, my touchstone…

Mon, 20 May 2013 18:41:34 +0200

-redux:

My constant, my touchstone…

becauseilikefrozenpeas: tighttummy: thisisreallyforme: Hahaha ...

Mon, 20 May 2013 18:37:30 +0200

becauseilikefrozenpeas:

tighttummy:

thisisreallyforme:

Hahaha

FOR. REALS.

this is totally me

can we just get this straight? if you message me on tumblr you are not annoying me i am a lonely...

Mon, 20 May 2013 18:34:41 +0200

can we just get this straight? if you message me on tumblr you are not annoying me i am a lonely person and any form of human contact is a god send

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Mon, 20 May 2013 16:34:54 +0200

Motivation for Fitness: Why Do Men Keep Putting Me in the Girlfriend-Zone?

Mon, 20 May 2013 16:22:50 +0200

Motivation for Fitness: Why Do Men Keep Putting Me in the Girlfriend-Zone?:

motivationforfitness:

literaryreference:

You know how it is, right, ladies? You know a guy for a while. You hang out with him. You do fun things with him—play video games, watch movies, go hiking, go to concerts. You invite him to your parties. You listen to his problems. You do all this because you think he wants to be your friend.

But then, then comes the fateful moment where you find out that all this time, he’s only seen you as a potential girlfriend. And then if you turn him down, he may never speak to you again. This has happened to me time after time: I hit it off with a guy, and, for all that I’ve been burned in the past, I start to think that this one might actually care about me as a person. And then he asks me on a date.

I tell him how much I enjoy his company, how much I value his friendship. I tell him that I really want to be his friend and to continue hanging out with him and talking about our favorite books or exploring new restaurants or making fun of avant-garde theatre productions. But he rejects me. He doesn’t answer my calls or e-mails; if we’d been making plans to do something before this fateful incident, these plans mysteriously fail to materialize. (This is why I never did get around to seeing the Hunger Games movie. Not to name any names, but thanks a lot, Tom.) Later, when I run into him at social events, our conversations are awkward and lukewarm. This is because the moment we met, he put me in the girlfriend-zone, and now he can’t see me as friend material.

I must say that I find this really unfair. I mean, I’m a nice girl. I have a lot to offer as a friend, like not being a douchebag and stuff. But males just don’t want to be friends with nice girls like me. They can’t help it, I guess; it’s just how they’re wired, biologically. Evolution conditioned our male hominid ancestors to seek nice girls as mates and form friendship bonds only with the other dudes that they hunted mammoths with. It’s true—I know this because I studied hominids in my fifth-grade science class.

So what’s the answer? Should I take up mammoth-hunting in an attempt to appeal to the friendship centers of men’s primal lizardbrains? Should I keep making guy “friends” and then prevent them from making a move on me by subtly undermining their self-confidence? Should I just give up on those manipulative, game-playing, two-faced bastards once and for all? I don’t know. I mean, I’d really like to have a true friendship with a guy someday, but it’s so hard to trust and respect them when they never say what they mean—and you never know when you might be relegated to the girlfriend-zone.

Best thing I’ve read all day. Totally OT for my blog, but deal with it. This is fabulous.

Someday I will make a cup of tea and don’t forget about it before it’s cold.

Mon, 20 May 2013 16:21:25 +0200

Someday I will make a cup of tea and don’t forget about it before it’s cold.

I wanted to tell people here that I have gone back to the social side of MyFitnessPal, so if anyone...

Mon, 20 May 2013 16:13:44 +0200

I wanted to tell people here that I have gone back to the social side of MyFitnessPal, so if anyone is part of it and wants to add me, please message me off-anon so I can give you my username.

I like supporting friends there and getting to know my healthy pals. :)

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Mon, 20 May 2013 16:08:56 +0200

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Mon, 20 May 2013 16:03:51 +0200

"You’re still going to get criticized, so you might as well do whatever the fuck you want."

Mon, 20 May 2013 15:45:06 +0200

“You’re still going to get criticized, so you might as well do whatever the fuck you want.”

- Kathleen Hanna (via pfelps)

"Do you know how many calories are in that?"

Mon, 20 May 2013 15:36:18 +0200

sodamnrelatable:

“…Do you know how many fucks I give?”

Hey, the anon who was worried about your health here. Thank you for your concern ^^ I have been eating more and I am healthier nowadays than I was before, but it's not something easy to go away. And I always worry when people say that they want to lose weight, because I think they might follow the same path as me. I just wanted to look out for you, in a non creepy way.

Mon, 20 May 2013 15:33:00 +0200

Hey there again. I’m glad to hear that you’re getting healthier and eating more. I wouldn’t want anything bad happen to you, and starving your body hurts it a lot. It’s great you’re changing your habits for the better even if it’s not easy. That says a lot about you and your strength. I’m proud of you.

I appreciate the concern. I don’t think it was creepy at all. I understand there’s a lot of people with EDs and it’s always worrying how people lose weight. That’s why I always make sure people know I do it the healthy way. I would never want to trigger anyone.

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